Think about what is right for you.
Begin by reflecting on your values, beliefs and understanding about end-of-life care or specific medical procedures, such as drug therapies, cardiopulmonary resuscitation (CPR) or dialysis. Think about any situations that you may have experienced with others and how it made you feel. You should also speak with your health care providers to ensure you have accurate information about your own health condition in order to express wishes about medical procedures that you may or may not want.
Ask yourself:
- If possible, would I prefer to die at home, in a hospital or in a long term care facility?
- What might change my mind about my choice?
- Do I want or not want certain medical interventions (e.g., resuscitation or feeding tubes) if I am unlikely to survive or live independently?
- Why would I want or not want these procedures?
- Do I have any fears about dying (e.g., I’ll be in pain, I won’t be able to breathe)?
- Is there someone that I can talk to about these fears, such as my doctor?
- What would be meaningful for me at the time of my death (e.g., family/friends nearby, music playing or pictures)?